Date Mode

Support

Email emily@getdatemode.com and we'll get back to you

Common questions

How do we pair?

One of you shares your pairing code from the app and the other types or pastes it in. Your code doesn't expire, and you can have one partner at a time.

Why didn't my phone lock?

Neither phone locks until you've both tapped. If you've both tapped, check that you allowed Screen Time access on iPhone (or the Accessibility Service on Android) and picked the apps to block.

Can I unlock during a date?

Yes. Tap Unlock early, type the confession, pick an excuse and hold. The date ends for both of you and your partner gets told.

Where are our photos?

Photos you take during a date stay hidden until it ends. Then they appear in your shared album with any note you add.

Does my partner need to pay too?

No. One subscription covers you and your current partner.

How do I cancel my subscription?

On iPhone, open Settings, tap your name, then Subscriptions, and choose Date Mode. Deleting the app doesn't cancel it.

How do I delete my account?

In the app, open Account and choose Delete account. You can't do this during a live date. The Privacy Policy lists what's removed and what your partner keeps.